Weddings:wastes of money. Dumb parties that impress a lot of auxiliary people that won't be in your life down line. Inviting them, feeding them, entertaining them, is the ceremony and reception about you or them?
Do you really need the gifts they will give you? Can't you afford to buy your own housewares? No one is buying you travel or a cruise.
It's a superficial party for the female to feel like she has reached a milestone. Throws money away for photography so she can savor the event on her wall or in her album.
Believe me, the groom doesn't look at the photos later.
It's a waste. Everything, the dress, the decorations,the cake, the flowers, the suits, the reception, the music always sucks. A lot of plain people dressed up to be mildly entertained.
And it is burning a hole in the father in laws pocket! A wise father, doesn't sponsor his daughters wedding. He uses the same money to make an investment that will multiply later, not throwing money away for some nice photos. Or he could buy an asset like a fun expensive toy as his gift for the couple.
Girls who dream of their weddings, and get excited about it, are shallow females. They like traditional shit. It's all about being pretty and a celebrity for the day. Ugh. Why is it so important to her that she have all these guests and witnesses to the empty meaningless vows?
So overrated. And wasteful. A party for petty people.
Once you've seen one, you've seen all. There is nothing really memorable about them. For vain women that like empty attention.
Believe me, your spouse doesn't HONOR his vows, because IVE MET HIM IN A BAR OR NIGHTCLUB.
Garbage ceremony. Totally without truth in it.
Elope instead. Save the spending. Travel somewhere with him. Go find adventure. Don't worry about dresses and photos.
Your typical girl, won't give up her fantasy though. She will insist on a ceremony and an audience. Dumb. And her immature spouse will likely just step out on her to run to the bar or nightclub. Ugh. You can't trust any man under 55. None of them stay at home, even when they have children! LOSER grooms.
As a mother, which I'm not, I would never raise my daughter to covet and dream about her wedding day. Wasteful fantasy. For your typical 30k boda, you could be buying some ETFS and a few IPOs and REITs. Not blowing it on designing a formal and VERY BORING party.
Girls that want expensive weddings are some kind of daddy's girl. And the fathers that give into them, are wasting their money. I wouldn't respect my husband if he spoiled my adult daughter who is dreaming more about the damn party than the actual quality of the relationship. Unless she is with a lawyer or engineer, he is probably a loser.
If my son in law, was some kind of habitual drinker, partyboy, pothead loafer, bar hound, or insists on hanging out with single friends, I would advise my daughter to upgrade. And to run! He isn't into her or being a couple. Who wants to be married to someone that likes going out to collect fantasies for themself to come home to and think about?! Absence of presence in the relationship.
Most marriages anyway are hell. The female has to run after her man, while he runs off. Uphill HELL. Who wants to run after their spouse or remind him to come home?! When your husband goes out to drink and have fun, and he thinks you're going to stay home and tolerate that shit-think again. When you have to accompany him to remind him not to drink so much, ugh. Who wants to play this mother role? Running after a man child? I would lose so much respect for my spouse, if he wants to just hang out all the time. This is not a serious businessman or someone with a serious career. This person likes parties and entertainment. They can't be controlled. They have no serious goals for their life. formal dresses for wedding guest
They are not worthy of respect. POISON for my daughter. As the father of my daughter married to this idiot, I'd say split with him. He is incapable of growing up. Forty year olds should not be riding skateboards. They should be riding their 100k motorcycle.
And the big wedding doesn't guarantee a lasting commitment. The relationship usually creeps and struggles. It's a huge celebration of a bullshit relationship, if you marry young, you'll want to just hang out with your clown and joker friends for about three to five years.
Wives can't tolerate that shit. Running after their spouse who is 'out' all the time!? What kind of serious joker is this? Some idiot that likes to hangout in the bar and is concentrated on his beer? Ugh. So respectAble.
Garbage husband material!
Weddings are waste. They don't kick off a lifetime of happiness. They are just for the photographs.
Don't sponsor them, you're just losing your money.